You might be struggling from a situation or moving on from a person in your life. Those memories ,they gave you happiness at one point. Stop trying to get over that person 24/7. Trying to unpin what went wrong with Understand what you are worth, focusing on your past will keep haunting you.
Focusing on trying to get over that person, will not let you get over them.
Focus on moving forward, small steps make difference. Hang out with friends that you don’t really feel too. You might hear something or see something different.
(Ladies time of the month is the most dangerous) - we get into our feelings a lot more. I would be so strong not to call and text my ex for 3-4 weeks. As soon as the time of the month kicks in, i miss him. I miss him and just think to myself why I can’t just turn back time. But then the time passes and I think to myself he made a choice in his life and choose to disrespect me. So I am worth more than that. If we are meant to be – god will put us back together.
Just because they said the miss you – doesn’t mean shit.
Manipulation, abuse, that trap that was damaging to your life. They not sleeping next to you, but sleeping with you. They miss not having to have control over you.They miss that person that will tolerate their mess, they miss the person they had power over. They miss the power they got, I know they don’t miss you. They do not know you, so when your past hits you up – saying I miss you. Make sure you let them they are missing a person that you no longer are.
It doesn’t mean that I need to go back. As you progress with your life – you will put power into that. Taking the power from the past. Just because you miss that amazing time, there was a reason why you moved on , there was a reason why you left, there was a reason why you decided to say enough is enough. In that situation, moments will be missed, you cannot let those moments drag you back to you know that was toxic for your life.
Remember the reason why you left.
It always starts with you!
Power in Prayer
One Love x
British Asian Female- working in the Finance industry plus a MUA - wanted to share the journey I have been through. Comment or email me!!