There is some people that simply with not be there for you when you need them – they don’t ring you randomly to see how you doing? So STOP thinking about they think – whether it is a relationship , friendship or family?
Many of us, say ‘I shouldn’t post that on FB/ Insta because my ex will see it’ – so what if he they see it? He will think I am still not over him etc. They broke up with you for a reason and you know what they don’t care, if they do that is their problem. My ex ‘liked’ a picture of mine on instagam. I had so many thoughts then I thought. Why do I need his validation? But I was thinking why do I care so much? If he thought I was that beautiful as he implied he wouldn’t have left me. Why was he checking up on me ? FYI (my personality is pretty fire too ). Once you broke me it is over – it is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS what I do because I am coming back stronger. You didn’t care when I was crying my eyes out when you cheated and the pain you caused me. So now I am looking fly why you care boy?
I would have days I was doing everything to get over him, trying to get one on him? To prove I was better than her? I already knew I was better than her – in his eyes he told me. So many questions kept coming back then why he leave? It just kept haunting me.
Which made me realised I need to value the people who love me at my worse! Shout out to those who have been there for me – you know who you are. My parents as well. The Lord that has been with me throughout and increased my faith – GOD! He held my head a float.
This has thought me a lesson – you do not need to share everything that is happening in your life with the world – share it with God! Do you! Don’t worry about them and stop looking for validation from others. It all starts from you.
British Asian Female- working in the Finance industry plus a MUA - wanted to share the journey I have been through. Comment or email me!!