A relationship or friendship should not be stressful. It should help you grow if it doesn’t then cut it loose. If he wants to be with you, he will be with you no matter what!
If it causes you stress – do you need it? Why are you doing that to yourself? DO not let anything take your peace away. Babe get rid of the toxic things in your life so you can remain calm and collected ! There is not such thing has ‘side’ or ‘main’ girl when you with real man! He only wants you and wouldn’t risk losing you.
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.
So just watch him, don’t chase him and you can see what happens. If you keep stressing and chasing him when he keeps slipping up then you missing out on a guy who might treat you right plus someone who you do not need to chase. Ensure you know your standards and requirements – so you can keep yourself in check. My ex boyfriend started texting his ex girlfriend when we were travelling the world together. I said STOP after about a week him texting her. He didn't stop entertaining her - so clearly he didn't respect me enough so I held the door wide open, He had excuses but enough is enough - I am no fool.
The longer you keep running back to, entertaining and stressing over the man boy the longer it will take for you to get to a man who is all about you. Great book or movie at this point for you ladies. Act like a lady and think like a man!
A example – a friend of mine (Lucy) was speaking to her boyfriend (Harry). Lucy does not like Harry’s friends because she believes they are not as smart and they do immature things. This is Lucys’ opinion, so her boyfriend asked his friend (Jack) to pick up some house keys from someone. Lucy starts getting angry at Harry – ‘ Jack is so stupid why would you ask him to do anything – he will probably lose them! Dumbass’. This was while Harry was on the phone to Jack.
Jack heard her which clearly insulted Harry. So Harry had a go at Lucy. This ended in a really big argument and unnecessary stress in my eyes.
In this situation my advice was to her, you should have kept quiet and seen how Jack handled the situation if he lost the keys it would have been Harry responsibility. But by you getting angry it makes you look like you cannot let Harry handle the situation which causes unnecessary drama. If Jack lost the keys then you could have said something to Harry.
Hope this helps
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British Asian Female- working in the Finance industry plus a MUA - wanted to share the journey I have been through. Comment or email me!!