If he is a GROWN boy then stop dealing with him. A GROWN boy doesn’t know how to treat or love a woman. I was with a grown boy – you know what it was beautiful in the beginning. I was thinking he was beautiful , sexy, fun and exciting. But guess what his WORDS WERE EMPTY – he didn’t follow through by actions.
So if your man is GROWN boy then stop being mistreated, disrespected and insulted. My friends would describe me as STRONG. I asked one friend why do you think I am strong , they said by looking at my achievements in the last 10 years I have characteristics of bring STRONG. But the battle inside was something else, I didn’t feel strong at all.
I am STRONG when it comes to all the other parts of my life, but relationships I am the biggest softy. My friend was explaining I put 110% in everything you do, which has helped my career, fitness, friendships but has killed my relationships. I was very lucky, that my previous relationship was long distance (blessing in disguise) so as soon as he started making me cry I left – but he didn’t come after me or ask me stay. He went straight to his ex – GROWN boy. He took the easy way out!
Ladies if he making you cry and is hurting you, then it doesn’t matter all the materialist things he has done for you. If deep down inside you do not trust him or he lying then end it. Not worth the pain!! He does not want you – period! If he broke up with you and ended up with someone straight away then
1. He was never on you,
2. He broke up with you a long time ago and you are just finding out. This is a hard reality to accept but it is the true, happened to me so I can relate. Everything is written – God has put these people in your life to teach you a lesson. Take it as a lesson, forgive him and move on. Do not let this pro long your suffering, it will be hard. Especially if you live together or you have babies. But do not let that be an excuse for you to be mistreated! Why? Are you worth him creeping and you have to stress if he is coming home?
The anxiety- the stress it is causing you ill health. Trust the process and believe in the Lord! It is toxic you not need to let it go! You are not only saving yourself but you are saving him too by letting him go. I use to think I use to able to fix him I cannot. He is cooked and I left him to sort his head out. Don’t make your infatuation make you iterated!
Power in Prayer
One Love x
British Asian Female- working in the Finance industry plus a MUA - wanted to share the journey I have been through. Comment or email me!!