Forget closure! Don’t let the person who is no longer with you control you! Do not worry about seeing what they are doing, or are they happy in their new relationship and if they still miss you – if they miss you they will call you – (careful that could be from boredom).
My ex liked one of my pictures on insta then asked a mutual friend ’why I was avoiding him’ but he was still shagging another girl so he doesn’t like the fact that I rejected him. ACTION speak louder than words. Words can be empty – without ACTIONS.
“Those who ruined your past don’t give them the power to ruin your FUTURE. Why do you keep going back to the place where is caused you pain when you shout about POWER. Why do you keep rehearsing the thing in your mind that takes your strength away.” – TD Jakes. Do not try and compete by posting pictures on social media to act like you are over it . If you need to go in solidary, work on you. You have been hurt, not facebook, not Instagram. Yes you may feel like if he sees you happy he will come back, look if you 100% in the relationship. That is all you can do. You cannot force someone to be with you. Just work on being the best version of you!
You do not need to show for them to know it! There is no point smiling for the camera when you will be crying the minute after you take that picture. You can only heal yourself by being real with yourself. You deserve better you don’t need to waste your energy, your time or your attention on the crumbs they try and throw your way.
British Asian Female- working in the Finance industry plus a MUA - wanted to share the journey I have been through. Comment or email me!!